Read something that i related to about not being into husband.crave , just not with him or when he's around

Women at Stage 1 feel as though something is missing in their lives. They have all the things that they wanted—a home, a family, a great husband—but they feel they should be happier. Over time, many women in this stage begin to lose interest in . It is not uncommon for them to spend a great deal of energy trying to avoid physical contact with their husbands because they fear it might lead to a ual encounter. They frequently complain of physical ailments to avoid having and often try to avoid going to bed at the same time as their husbands. They view as a job, not unlike doing the dishes or going to the grocery store. Some women in Stage 1 claim they feel violated when their husbands touch them. Their bodies freeze up and they feel tightness in their chest and/or a sick feeling in their stomach. The majority of women in Stage 1 feel as though there is something wrong with them, that they are in some way defective.